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27 | Are Your Emotional Outbursts Causing A Strain On Your Marriage? Follow The P.A.T.H. Method: A Simple Process for Handling Hard Emotions. (With Special Guest Levi Gray, aka My Husband)

Is It Weak to Cry? How do you stop letting emotions run your life? What Jesus Shows Us About Emotions (and how that applies in marriage)
In this episode:We’re diving into the truth about emotional expression in marriage—especially for husbands. What does the Bible say about crying, grief, and sadness? And how does Jesus model emotional strength for Christian men? This one might challenge what you’ve believed about "manhood" in marriage, but it’s going to open the door to healing, deeper connection, and powerful unity.
 
💡 What you'll learn:
Why Jesus openly expressed sorrow—and what that means for your marriage
How naming your emotions is a spiritual and relational breakthrough
What it looks like for husbands to lead with honesty instead of stoicism
How wives can support (and not shame) a grieving husband
The surprising way emotional vulnerability reflects God's design for unity
 
👣 Listen now if you want to:
Understand how emotional walls might be keeping your marriage stuck
See how the enemy twists masculinity into emotional suppression
Let Jesus reshape your view of strength and sorrow
Feel closer to your spouse through shared grief and gentleness
Heal hidden parts of your heart by following Christ’s example
 
🧭 Resources & Links Mentioned:
Book a free marriage coaching session
Bonus ep: Grumbling, Complaining, And Struggling To Keep Going When Things Get Hard? Here's 3 Things Jesus Teaches Us About Coping
 

Bonus | Grumbling, Complaining, And Struggling To Keep Going When Things Get Hard? Here's 3 Things Jesus Teaches Us About Coping

Devotional: How To Keep Going When Things Are Hard
🙋‍♀️ Are you following God in your marriage—or just doing what feels natural? Have you hears of The Marriage Killer We Don’t Talk About: Grumbling, Complaining, and Following Your Flesh.
In today’s devotional-style episode, we’re getting brutally honest about the internal patterns that quietly sabotage Christian marriages. We dive into scripture and talk about how easy it is to fall into selfishness, grumbling, and complaining… and how these "small" habits can tear down the unity God intended for our homes.
If you’ve ever thought, “Why do I feel so disconnected from my spouse?”—this episode might hold the answer. 👀
Here’s what we unpack inside this episode:
The surprising connection between selfishness and marital division
What the Bible says about those who “live only to satisfy their desires”
A Spirit-led heart check you can do today
Why grumbling and flattery are signs you might be out of alignment
How to shift your mindset and actions for a stronger, Christ-centered marriage
🎯 Ready for a reset in your marriage?
If you want my personal help walking through your marriage challenges and figuring out your next right step for the most impact, I’d love to support you.
➡️ Book a free 1-on-1 coaching call

26 | Do You Feel Like You’re Doing All the Work And He Doesn’t Notice? 5 Steps To Get The Support You Need

How to Get the Support You Actually Need From Your Spouse (Without Feeling Bitter or Unseen)
If you’ve ever felt like your husband just doesn’t get it—like you’re carrying the mental load and he’s missing the weight of it—this episode is for you. You’re not alone in feeling like your needs go unseen or that you're expected to juggle it all without complaint. But what if your spouse isn’t ignoring you… he just doesn’t know what you need?
In this raw and hope-filled conversation, we’ll break down:
What to do when you’re overwhelmed and he doesn’t notice
The truth about why our husbands don’t “just know”
How to stop expecting mind-reading and start creating real partnership
5 powerful steps to start getting the support you need—without resentment
Biblical wisdom that can shift how you both show up in your marriage
This episode will help you move from silent tension to true partnership, with language and tools that create connection, not conflict. 💛
🎧 Tune in now and grab a notebook—you’ll want to take notes!
 
🙌 Ready for Support in your marriage:Book your free marriage coaching session and get clarity on what your next step is—together. You’ll leave with a custom game plan, greater insight, and zero pressure. Spots are limited, so grab yours now.
👉 Book Your Free Call Here
 
 
🎙️ Resources & Mentions:
Simple Rhythms for Busy Moms podcast by Kyan Molina
Systemize Your Life with Chelsi Jo
Scripture references: Mark 14:32-27, Jude 16:17-24, James 1:19, Ephesians 4:29, Proverbs 15:1
Book a Free Coaching Call Here

Bonus | When the Picture-Perfect Marriage Isn’t Your Story With Special Guest Britton George

What if my marriage is a little untraditional? Second marriages, unequally yoked, and a blended family.Marriage is already a journey, but what happens when you're navigating a second marriage, a blended family, or differences in faith? These challenges can feel overwhelming, but they don’t have to divide you. In this bonus episode, I sit down with Britton George for an honest conversation about what it’s like to rebuild after brokenness and follow God through an unequally yoked marriage. We talk about getting married young, healing after divorce, navigating trauma in your relationship, and learning how to show up in a marriage where you’re not equally yoked spiritually. Britton shares what it’s been like blending a family, surrendering the image of a “perfect Christian marriage,” and trusting God’s timing—even when it’s not what you expected. If you’ve ever felt like your story doesn’t fit the mold, this one’s for you.
Here's what you'll learn:
✅ What it means to be unequally yoked—and how to handle it
✅ Why your spouse might shut down—and what it really means
✅ How past wounds and experiences shape the way you show up in marriage
✅ The key to navigating emotional withdrawal and differences in communication
✅ How to trust God with the marriage you have, not just the one you imagined
 
🎧 Tune in now for biblical encouragement and practical strategies to strengthen your marriage, no matter where you're starting from!
 
About Britton:
Britton is a Jesus-loving wife, mom to four wild and wonderful boys, and a passionate educator at heart. As a Christian life transformation coach, she helps women break free from anxiety, fear, and overwhelm so they can live boldly in their God-given calling.
She’s the author of Ten Days to Peace, host of the Called and Courageous Christian Woman podcast, and a co-host to the Better Together Christian Women's Retreats, which focus on building connection and friendships for Christian women. 
Through her coaching programs, transformational retreats, and signature frameworks, she specializes in helping women reclaim inner peace, deepen their spiritual walk, and live out their faith with courageous confidence. Whether you're stuck in fear, living in overwhelm, or ready to walk in purpose, her message is a timely invitation to stop striving—and start surrendering.
 
Resources & Links Mentioned:📌 Listen to Brittons Podcast: The Called and Courageous Christian Woman📌 Grab Her Book on Amazon📌 Britton's website📌 Book a free coaching call with Micaiah 💬 Loved this episode? Leave a review and share with a friend who needs this encouragement! 🙌 

25 | Healing A Broken Marriage: What Actually Works (And What Doesn't)

How to fix a broken marriage?
Imagine waking up and finally feeling safe, seen, and supported in your marriage. No walking on eggshells. No more wondering if it’s even worth the fight. Just peace, connection, and knowing you're in this together. Sounds far off? It’s not. In this episode, we’re diving deep into what actually works when your marriage feels broken—and what doesn’t.
If you’ve ever thought:
“Is it even possible to fix this?”
“I’m the only one trying…”
“We’re just too different.”
“He’ll never change.”
“I don’t even know if I care anymore…”
You’re not alone—and you are NOT without hope. Today we’re talking through those thoughts, how to reframe them, and how the renewing of your mind (Romans 12:2) can transform your entire relationship from the inside out.
🎧 Hit play to learn:
What you might be doing that’s pushing your spouse away (without realizing it)
Why “waiting for them to change” doesn’t work—and what to do instead
The role of spiritual warfare in your marriage (and how to fight the right enemy)
Simple, doable shifts that make a BIG difference (like one daily habit that builds connection)
How God can restore what feels beyond repair
🙌🏽 This episode is packed with truth, hope, and practical help—whether your spouse is on board or not. You don’t have to stay stuck. Healing is possible. And it starts with the way you think.
📘 Resources & Links Mentioned:
📞 Book a free marriage coaching call with me: Book Here
🎙️ Listen to past episodes that will encourage you right where you are
📖 Ready to join the United Marriage coaching program? Join Here
 
 
🙏🏽 If this blessed you, would you do me a favor?Share this episode with a friend who’s struggling in her marriage.Leave a review so more women can find this hope.You never know the ripple effect your share could have. 💌
 
 
💛 Remember: Healthy marriages create healthy homes, and healthy homes change generations. I’m rooting for your transformation—and praying for YOU today.
 

24 | Self-Improvement Is The Answer To Your Marriage Struggles (Here's Why)

What is biblically aligned self-improvement and how can it transform your marriage? How to self-coach and transform your marriage.
🌟 Ever feel like your brain is working against you in your marriage?
When emotions run high, our minds can jump to conclusions that aren’t always true. "He never listens." "She doesn't care." But what if you could rewire those thoughts and respond in a way that strengthens your marriage instead of tearing it down?
In this episode, we’re diving into three powerful steps to self-coach in the moment, so you can:
🔹 Recognize the thoughts driving your reactions 🔹 Separate thoughts from facts to gain clarity 🔹 Choose healthier, more productive ways to respond
This episode is PACKED with practical wisdom to help you shift your mindset and break cycles of dysfunction in your marriage. Plus, we talk about how your childhood experiences might be influencing your current marriage dynamics—and what you can do about it.
➡️ Want to go deeper? I offer free coaching calls so you can experience this work firsthand. No selling, just coaching! Book your free session below.
➡️ Join our FREE Facebook group to access tomorrow’s exclusive training on creating a Christ-centered marriage. Link below.➡️ Have a specific question you want to ask Micaiah? Click here to ask an (anonymous) question for Micaiah to answer on the podcast.
Resources & Links Mentioned:
📌 Book a Free Marriage Coaching Call: Click Here📌 Join the United Marriage Facebook Group for our free training for wives (happening tomorrow!): Join Here
If this episode blessed you, could you take a second to rate & review? Your support helps spread this message to more marriages in need of healing! And if you found it helpful, screenshot and share on your stories—tag me so I can thank you!
Remember: Healthy marriages create healthy homes, and healthy homes change generations. I’m praying for you!
🌟 With love & blessings, Micaiah Gray

23 | How to Be a Remembering Wife—How God Calls Us to Remember and Why It Matters in Marriage

How to Shift Your Mindset and Transform Your Marriage
Ever feel like no matter how much effort you put into your marriage, you keep running into the same struggles? You’re not alone. But what if the solution isn’t just about doing more—but actually about thinking differently?
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into how your thoughts shape your marriage. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in frustration, questioning your relationship, or feeling like you’re not making progress, this is for you. We’ll unpack the role of past experiences, how to break free from negative cycles, and the small mindset shifts that can lead to real, lasting change.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✨ The surprising link between your past experiences and your current marriage struggles✨ Why focusing on past frustrations keeps you stuck—and what to do instead✨ How your brain’s negativity bias impacts your relationship (and how to override it)✨ A simple mindset shift that can help you reconnect with your spouse today
Here’s the truth: You already have the tools you need to create the marriage you desire. Sometimes, you just need help recognizing them. That’s where I come in.
 
Free Resources:
🎁 Let’s talk about your marriage! Book a free coaching call with me, and let’s see if you’re a good fit for my program. And if not? You’ll still walk away with clarity and tools to take the next step. Click here to book →Have a specific question you want to keep anonymous? Ask it here if you want to get your anonymous question asked on the podcast!
How you can help the mission:
🩵 If this episode encouraged you, would you take 10 seconds to leave a 5-star rating? It helps so much in spreading this message to other Christian couples who need it. And if you really loved it, screenshot this episode and share it to your stories—I’d love to thank you personally!
Praying for you and your marriage always. 💕
 
Are you ready to join the United Marriage Coaching Program?Join my 6-month coaching program today, and get the personalized help you need! Click here if you are ready to invest in your marriage!
 
 

22 | How to Communicate With Your Husband So He Wants to Say Yes

How to Communicate With Your Husband So He Wants to Say Yes. Do you ever feel like no matter how you ask, your husband just doesn’t hear what you’re really saying? Maybe he gets defensive, shuts down, or just flat-out resists what you're asking. In this episode, we’re diving deep into how to communicate with your husband in a way that makes him actually want to say yes. And no—it’s not manipulation. It’s about understanding how men naturally receive communication and using that to build a stronger, more united marriage.
If you’re tired of feeling unheard or frustrated in your conversations with your husband, this episode is a must-listen!
 
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ Why your husband may not be responding the way you want✔️ The surprising reason he might be resisting—even when he wants to make you happy✔️ How shifting your communication approach can completely change how he listens and responds✔️ The biblical foundation for why your husband should desire to please you✔️ How embracing your feminine role actually strengthens your marriage
Episode Highlights:
✨ “Imagine if your husband was excited to say yes to what you asked—without arguing, resistance, or frustration.”
✨ “When we step into a role that isn’t ours, we forfeit the blessings of the role God actually gave us.”
✨ “Your husband wants to make you happy, but sometimes, the way we communicate makes him feel attacked instead.”
Resources Mentioned:
🎧 Bonus Episode: My Review of The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle – If you want to hear my honest thoughts on this book and how it aligns with Christian marriage, check out this bonus episode.Book a Free Coaching Call with Micaiah HereJoin the 6-month United Marriage Coaching Program
Ask Micaiah A Question To Be Answered on the Podcast
 
💬 Let’s Connect!Join the conversation inside our Facebook group for Christian wives who want to build a stronger, more united marriage!
📅 Need personal guidance? Book a free coaching call with me here and let’s work through your marriage struggles together!
👂 Enjoyed this episode? Leave a review and share with a friend who needs this encouragement today!

Bonus | My Messiest & Most Vulnerable Episode: 4 Steps To Stop Pressuring Yourself (Using Self-Coaching Tools)

Feeling Rushed, Overwhelmed, and Behind? Here's the Truth You Need to Hear
Ever feel like you're constantly rushing, overwhelmed, and always behind? You're not alone. In today’s raw and unfiltered episode, I’m coming to you straight from my phone because I had to get this out. No fancy intro, no perfectly planned script—just an honest conversation about the pressure we put on ourselves as wives, moms, and business owners.
Inside this episode, I’m sharing:✔️ The overwhelming pressure I was putting on myself to do it all and how it showed up in my life.✔️ The eye-opening realization I had during a coaching call that changed everything.✔️ Why so many of us struggle with feeling rushed and how it impacts our marriages, families, and businesses.✔️ The truth about your worth (hint: it’s not tied to how much you accomplish).✔️ A mindset shift that will help you let go of the pressure and find more peace in your life.
If you’ve ever felt like you have to keep pushing, like slowing down isn’t an option, or that taking something off your plate means you’re failing—you need to hear this.
✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:📌 Ready for faith-based marriage coaching? I’m opening spots! Get personalized guidance for both you and your spouse at an incredibly affordable rate. Click here to learn more.
📌 Book a FREE coaching call with Micaiah here
📌 Join our United Christian Marriage Facebook group for encouragement and support. Join here.
 
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United Christian Marriage Podcast | Heal, Restore & Strengthen Your Marriage in Christ
Do you feel stuck in the same marriage struggles—communication breakdowns, emotional distance, or lingering past hurts? Have you ever wondered if your marriage can truly heal and thrive again?
Welcome to the United Christian Marriage Podcast, where I show you the road to two people becoming ONE in their marriage. Here we talk about faith meets real-life marriage struggles. Hosted by Christian marriage coach Micaiah Gray, this podcast is for wives who want to break free from dysfunction, rebuild trust, and create a Christ-centered marriage filled with love, grace, and unity; all while bringing their husbands into the process. 
Here, you’ll learn:✅ How to strengthen/heal your marriage through biblical principles and practical tools✅ The impact of past trauma on your relationship—and how to stop the cycle✅ How to restore intimacy and feel truly connected with your spouse again✅ Ways to strengthen communication, navigate challenges, and build lasting unity
Whether you're in a tough season or simply want to take your marriage to the next level, each episode gives you clear, faith-based strategies to grow together as a couple.
🎁 Ready for real transformation?Book a free coaching call with Micaiah today and take the next step toward a stronger, healthier marriage. Click here to schedule!
👉 Follow now and start your journey to a thriving, Christ-centered marriage!