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Bonus | Reviewing The Empowered Wife Book by Laura Doyle

My Honest Review on the Empowered Wife Audio Book
📖 In this episode, I’m diving into a popular marriage book that focuses on wives. While it offers some great insights, there were a few things that didn’t sit right with me—especially when it comes to unity, communication, and a biblical understanding of marriage. Should wives be keeping marriage resources a secret from their husbands? How should we approach self-care in marriage? And when addressing sin, what's the best biblical approach? Tune in to hear my honest review and personal experiences!  
 
🎙️ What You'll Learn:  ✔️ Why marriage resources should be for both husbands and wives  ✔️ The importance of unity and communication in marriage  ✔️ Why self-care can sometimes be misunderstood in marriage  ✔️ Biblical insights on addressing sin and supporting each other  ✔️ My personal experience with the book’s recommendations 
 
⏳ Episode Timestamps:  [14:54] - Why this book focuses only on wives & why I made my coaching program for both spouses  [15:37] - The problem with keeping marriage resources a secret from your husband  [18:48] - My funny experience trying the book’s “just say no” self-care advice  [20:10] - What biblical self-care really looks like  [21:23] - The issue with how the book addresses “corn with a P” and why it’s a serious problem  [24:09] - Final thoughts: Is this book a good first step?  
 
Take the Next Step:  👉 Ready for personalized support in your marriage? Book a free coaching call with me [here] 
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I’m praying for you and your marriage. Can’t wait to join you next time. Until then, God bless!  
 
Listen: Does Healing Your Marriage Require Both Spouses? 3 Simple Things Wives Can Do To Start Healing Their Marriage Today
Buy The Book: Buy The Empowered Wife
 
 
📢 Book a Call- Change Your MarriageDon’t forget to book your free coaching call with me [here] - and let’s work together to bring healing and peace to your marriage!
 
 

21 | Can A Marriage Be Restored? What To Do When You Feel HOPELESS.

Listen to this before you give up on your marriage. 
💔 Can A Marriage Be Restored? What To Do When You Feel HOPELESS
If your marriage feels broken beyond repair, you’re not alone. Maybe you’ve tried everything—counseling, books, praying—but nothing seems to change. So what now? Can a marriage really be restored when you feel hopeless?
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into what restoration actually looks like, the key shifts that must happen for healing, and what to do if you’re the only one fighting for your marriage right now. Whether you're barely holding on or just feeling stuck, this conversation will bring hope and clarity for your next steps.
 
🔑 Key Takeaways:
The biggest misconceptions about restoring a marriage
What to do when your spouse isn’t willing to change
Practical steps to rebuild trust, even after deep hurt
The role of faith and God's power in restoring a broken marriage
 
🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward healing!
⏰ Timestamps:0:00 - Personal story: Feeling hopeless but choosing to fight for restoration5:30 - The truth about marriage restoration—what no one tells you10:45 - The mistake couples make when trying to fix things too quickly15:20 - Why personal healing is the key to a healthier marriage21:00 - What to do when your spouse isn’t interested in changing25:40 - Encouragement & your next steps
 
📌 Resources & Links Mentioned:
Book a free marriage coaching call
Grab the Free Guide for Wives: 3 Steps to a Stronger Marriage
Join our Facebook community for support
Related podcast episodes on marriage restoration:
"Bonus | Does Healing Your Marriage Require Both Spouses? 3 Simple Things Wives Can Do To Start Healing Their Marriage Today"
"Bonus | Are You The Problem? Why You Need to Stop Isolating Yourself And Get Support From Within The Church"
18 | Live Coaching Session: Are You Incorrectly "reading your spouse's mind"? Break the Cycle of Overwhelm in Marriage 
How to Communicate With Your Husband So That He Will Want To Say Yes
 
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Bonus | God Is A God Of Order. Is There Order In Your Marriage?

God is a God of Order—Is There Order in Your Marriage?
✨ Is your marriage aligned with God’s divine order? In this bonus episode, we dive into how God’s design for marriage brings clarity, peace, and unity. If you're feeling stretched thin, exhausted, or unsure if you're "doing enough," this episode is for you.
💡 What You’ll Learn:
Why God’s order in marriage is essential for peace and unity
How busyness and distractions pull us away from His design
The foundational scriptures that reveal God’s blueprint for marriage
Why love, respect, and intentionality are key to a thriving relationship
Practical steps to realign your marriage with God’s order
📖 Resources & Scriptures Mentioned:
Genesis 2:24 – God’s order for marriage
Proverbs 18:22 – Wives are a blessing
1 Peter 4:8 – Love covers a multitude of sins
Proverbs 31 – Biblical wisdom for wives
Hebrews 13:4 – Honoring marriage
💬 Let’s Connect!Join the conversation in my Facebook group: United Christian Marriage
📅 Need personalized support? Book a free coaching call: Schedule here
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20 | Is It Possible To Truly Be ONE With Your Spouse Early In The Marriage? Some Experts Say It Takes 6+ Years- Here's Why I Disagree

Does it really take 6-8 years to be united in marriage? Do you need to be married for 6-10 years to have it figured out? Short answer: NO, you can be the expert of your marriage in as little as 6 months (maybe less)This episode will break down how you can be united in your marriage starting today, with three simple shifts that are SO obvious, and yet so often missed. 🎙️ In This Episode, We Cover:
The one conversation that will help you avoid unnecessary stress and miscommunication in your marriage
How to plan your week together and get on the same page about schedules, work, family, and fun
Why operating in your God-given role as a wife is essential for a healthy, thriving marriage
Practical ways to stop being passive-aggressive, snappy, or negative and instead support your husband’s leadership
How this simple habit can help you build a Christ-centered home and break toxic cycles
📌 Resources & Links Mentioned:🔹 Download the Free Marriage Guide – Learn how to embrace your God-given role as a wife🔹 Book a Free Marriage Coaching Call – Let’s work together to heal, communicate better, and strengthen your marriage
 
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🙌 Remember: Healthy marriages create healthy homes, and healthy homes change generations. I’m praying for you and cheering you on! See you next time!

Bonus | How To Stop Being A Controlling Wife And Start Being The Biblical Wife You Desire To Be

From Control to Trust – How to Honor God in Your Marriage Without Fear
Are you struggling with control in your marriage? Do you find yourself constantly correcting your husband, stepping in to “fix” things, or feeling anxious when things aren’t done your way? You’re not alone, and more importantly—you don’t have to stay stuck in this cycle.
In this episode, we’re diving into:✔️ What the Bible says about a quarrelsome wife and how to break free from this pattern✔️ Why learning to respect your husband (without nagging or micromanaging) transforms your marriage✔️ How to stop being a controlling wife and start walking in trust and peace✔️ What true Christian wife discipline looks like—hint: it’s not about being passive, it’s about being spiritually strong✔️ The biblical marriage principles that will help you shift from control to godly confidence
What does the Bible say about a wife’s role in marriage? If you’ve ever wondered how to balance being a strong, confident, biblical wife while also honoring God’s design for marriage, this episode will give you clarity and encouragement and walk you through Biblical Marriage Principles.
Looking for an alternative to Christian marriage therapy? This podcast—and our free coaching calls—might be exactly what you need! Book a free call with me to talk through what’s going on in your marriage and get biblical guidance tailored to your situation.
 
🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned:📖 Download my Free Workbook for Christian Wives 🗣️ Book a Free Coaching Call – Let’s work through this together!🎧 Listen to More Christian Marriage Resources on the podcast- leave us a review on Apple Podcasts!!
 
Healthy marriages create healthy homes—and healthy homes change generations. Let’s build a God-honoring, thriving marriage together!
 

19 | Why Do I Let My Emotions Control Me? Do Spiritual Maturity and Spiritual Immaturity Have a Part In It?

Are You Being Led by Your Emotions? How to Make Decisions with Wisdom and Faith  
In this episode of United Christian Marriage, we’re diving into an important question: Are you being led by your emotions? And if so, how much weight should emotions carry in your decision-making as a Christian?  
 
When emotions control your life, it can feel overwhelming—like you’re constantly reacting instead of making decisions with wisdom and faith. Many wives struggle with why they feel out of control of their emotions, especially when balancing marriage, parenting, and faith. But does spiritual maturity mean turning off emotions altogether, or is there a better way?  
 
Here’s what we cover: - The pressure wives face to juggle multiple roles while staying emotionally balanced  - Why emotions can’t always be trusted—especially when we’re spiritually immature (spiritual immaturity definition)  - A biblical perspective on decision-making and why spiritual growth is essential (spiritually mature meaning)  - How emotional reactions (like anxiety or gut feelings) can sometimes mislead us (why do I let my emotions control me?)  - The difference between intuition and fear-based reactions rooted in past trauma (do not be led by your emotions)  - Practical steps to grow spiritually so you can discern God’s voice from your emotions  
 
If you’ve ever wondered what it means when your emotions control you or how to stop being led by emotions, this episode will give you clarity and encouragement.  
 
 
Resources & Links Mentioned:  - Book a Free Coaching Call – Get personalized guidance on strengthening your marriage  - Join the Facebook Community– Connect with other Christian wives on this journey  
 
 
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Bonus | Does Healing Your Marriage Require Both Spouses? 3 Simple Things Wives Can Do To Start Healing Their Marriage Today

3 Powerful Changes You Can Make to Transform Your Marriage As The Wife
 
Feeling stuck in your marriage? Wondering how to create real, lasting change even if it feels like your spouse isn’t on the same page?
 
In today’s episode, we’re diving into three powerful shifts you can make starting today to bring more peace, connection, and healing into your home.  
 
You’ll learn:  - The mindset shift that can instantly change how your husband responds to you  - A simple yet often overlooked way to encourage your husband to lead  - How to set healthy boundaries without disrupting the unity in your marriage  
- When you need your husband to get on board to create unity- but why this isn't step one.
 
And the best part? These changes don’t require your husband to be on board first—you can start making an impact right now!  
Press play to learn how to step into your role with confidence and create a Christ-centered marriage that thrives.  
 
Resources & Links Mentioned:  - Book a Free Coaching Call (limited spots available!)  
Other Recommended resources:
-Kayan Molina (Simple Rhythms for Busy Moms) & Chelsea Jo (Systemize Your Life)  
- BOOK: The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle
 
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18 | Spotlight Coaching Session: Are you Incorrectly "reading your spouses mind"? Break the Cycle of Overwhelm in Marriage

Are you: Feeling overwhelmed in your marriage? Struggling with self-imposed pressure? 
Join me for a powerful spotlight coaching session with Svetlanna as we tackle the all-too-common struggle of feeling like you're never doing enough. If you constantly push yourself to exhaustion, take on too much responsibility, or mind-read your spouse’s expectations—this episode is for you.If you love this episode, book your own free coaching call below!
In This Episode, We Cover:
✅ The hidden ways we "mind-read" our spouse’s expectations✅ How past relationship dynamics can shape our current mindset✅ The emotional and mental toll of overcommitting and not delegating✅ Why exhaustion actually creates more stress in your marriage✅ The importance of balancing logic and emotion in a healthy Christian marriage
I know your gonna love it!
⏳ Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome & why this episode is so special2:00 – Scott Lana’s struggle: assuming her husband's expectations10:00 – How past relationship patterns fuel current stress17:00 – The emotional toll of thinking you’re never doing enough25:00 – How this cycle affects marriage and what needs to change
Resources & Links Mentioned:
📌 Join the United Marriage Facebook Group📌 Book a Free Marriage Coaching Call
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Bonus | Are You The Problem? Why You Need to Stop Isolating Yourself And Get Support From Within The Church

Why Can’t God Just Heal Us Without Others? Here's Why We Need Others in the Healing Process​.
Ever wondered why God doesn’t just heal us instantly? If He has the power, why do we need therapy, coaching, or even friends to help us heal? In this bonus episode, we’re diving into the biblical foundation for seeking guidance from others and why God designed us to heal in community.
👉 In This Episode, We Cover:
Why seeking help isn’t a lack of faith but a biblical principle
How God uses people as tools for healing and transformation
The dangers of seeking secular therapy and why Christian guidance matters
Bible verses that support counseling, coaching, and seeking wisdom from others
Practical ways to invest in your marriage without breaking the bank
If you’re feeling stuck and unsure where to turn for help, this episode is for you! Whether it’s a trusted friend, a church leader, or a Christian coach, you don’t have to do this alone.
 
💬 Need personal guidance for your marriage? Book a free coaching call today—spots are limited! 
Book a Free Coaching Call
 
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17 | Should Christians Go to Therapy? How to Heal While Keeping God at the Center.

Should Christians Spouses Go to Therapy? A Balanced Perspective:  
🚨 Exciting news! The podcast has a fresh new name: Unified Christian Marriage Podcast (though the cover just says Unified Marriage for simplicity). This shift reflects a clearer focus—helping Christian couples strengthen their marriage first before tackling deeper family challenges like parenting or generational trauma.  
 
But today’s topic? Therapy and faith. Should Christians go to therapy, or should they just rely on God for healing? In this episode, I share:  ✅ My personal experiences with therapy (and why it didn’t fully work for me)  ✅ The difference between therapy and life coaching (and why they can complement each other)  ✅ How to approach mental health without leaving God out of the equation  ✅ Bible studies that helped me in my own healing journey  
No matter where you are—feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next step—this episode will help you find clarity and peace. 
 
Listen now 👇  
Timestamps & Topics Covered:⏳ [0:00] Podcast rebrand announcement – Why I changed the name & what’s shifting  ⏳ [6:56] Should Christians go to therapy? – Balancing faith & mental health  ⏳ [9:12] My personal experience with therapy – The trust issues that held me back  ⏳ [17:26] What I wish I knew about life coaching – Why it was the missing piece for me  ⏳ [21:41] Faith + therapy = a powerful combo – How to include God in your healing  ⏳ [26:46] Practical next steps – Bible studies, prayer, and real-life tools for growth  
 
Resources & Links Mentioned: 📖 Get Out of Your Head by Jennie Allen – [Find it here]🎉 Join the Facebook community – United Christian Marriage | Build a Christ-Centered home with your spouse 📞 Want personalized help? Book a FREE marriage coaching call before spots fill up → [Schedule now] 
 
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