38 | If I Speak Up, Won’t I Be Disrespecting Him Or Failing To Submit? 5 Communication Tips For Biblical Wives (Even If You Disagree With Him)

Am I being disrespectful when I disagree with him? Is speaking up unbiblical? What does submission actually look like in a healthy, Christ-centered marriage?

This episode is for YOU. We’re busting the myth that submission equals silence — and leaning into what Scripture actually says about communication and being a biblical wife.

👑 Inside this episode:
- The surprising root of combativeness in marriage (and how Micaiah overcame it)
- The real meaning of a quiet and gentle spirit (spoiler: it’s not about being silent or small)
- Why your tone matters more than your words — and how to practice a respectful one
- How to check your heart posture before you speak 3 biblical examples of godly confrontation (Abigail, Esther, and even Jesus!)
- 5 practical communication tips to speak up with love (even about hard things)

💡 You’ll walk away knowing:

• How to honor God without losing your voice
• Why submission doesn’t mean shrinking
• What the Bible actually says about wives speaking truth in love 🎯

 

 

Resources & Links Mentioned:
- Book a free marriage coaching session (for both spouses)

- Book a free biblical wife coaching session (with Micaiah & you)

- Download the free guide for wives 

 

Scriptures for further study:
• Ephesians 5:22–24
• 1 Peter 3:1–4
• Proverbs 27:6, 12:4, 31:10–12, 21:9
• 1 Samuel 25 (Abigail)
• Matthew 16:23 (Jesus & Peter)
• Book of Esther Mentioned
Book: Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

 

❤️ Ready to take the next right step in your marriage? I’d love to help you get personal clarity on how to walk this out in your home. Book a free marriage coaching call — limited spots available! If this episode encouraged you, would you take 30 seconds to leave a review? Or share this with a friend who needs it? It helps more than you know.